Dating Tips: Do’s and Don’ts

Getting involved in dating can be an interesting ride, and when it comes to dating a woman, there are just some things that you should do, and of course a few things that you shouldn’t.  If you want to be successful with the women that you date, it’s important that you learn a few dating tips that will help you along the way.  So, here are a few do’s and don’ts for dating that you should definitely keep in mind.

Dating Do’s

First of all, you’ll find that there are some dating do’s that you need to keep in mind.  These are all important, so make sure that you always do these things on a date.

  • Be Courteous –  It’s definitely very important that you are courteous when you are out on aistock_000003943443xsmall date with a woman.  Every woman is going to expect this from you and if you fail to be courteous, you can say goodbye to a second date.
  • Pay for the First Date – You should also pay for the first date.  Even if she wants to go Dutch-treat, you’ll find that it is a better idea to go ahead and pay for everything.  This makes a wonderful impression on a woman.
  • Be Chivalrous – Being chivalrous is a great idea as well.  Women do not believe that chivalry is dead. Open doors for her, seat her at a table, and make sure that you always treat her like a lady. Women love this.
  • Listen – One of the most important things for a woman is that her date actually listens to her. So, it’s important that you listen when you are out on a date.  Don’t fake it – a woman can always tell if you are really listening.

Dating Don’ts

While there are a few things you’ll always want to do on a date with a woman, there are a few don’ts to be aware of as well.  Here are a few don’ts you’ll always want to avoid if you want to keep a woman.

  • DON’T Talk About Ex’s – First of all, don’t talk about your exes.  This really is not a great idea, especially in the early part of the relationship.  While it may be something to be discussed later, most women will wonder if you are still hung up on your ex if you are always talking about her.
  • DON’T Drink a Lot – You’ll want to avoid drinking a lot as well.  Many women see this as a weakness, and if you drink too much, you may end up getting drunk and doing some things that you’ll regret later.
  • DON’T Try to Be Impressive – You should never work too hard to impress a woman.  Don’t try to be an impressive person. This actually can drive women away.
  • DON’T Try to Be Someone Else – Last of all, you should never try to be someone else. Be yourself.  If she’s not happy with that, then that’s her problem. However, you should never try to be someone that you are not.

These are just a few dating tips to keep in mind when you’re dating women.  Women can be complex creatures, but these are some definite do’s and don’ts that can help you along the way.


  1. JR

    Great article. Thanks for the tips.

  2. Elisha

    I like your list and I hope the guys who approach me to date should get to read yours…just one addition that I want to add in your list in Do’s – basis my experience so far , which is quite big now :)…I have been using .coms for dating for at least 3 years –

    To be added – (For guys)
    Do not be shy in approaching girl at all – if the girl is decent she will actually like that you are hesitating to approach her…coz this shows that you are quite aware of your own insult and respect…and girls like this…if you respect your self then you sure will respect her…

    I dont know if you understand what I am trying to say …lot of shy guys that I have been able to meet thorugh Bluepont have revealed to me that they would have not approached me had they not used Bluepont as I am quite good looking and they dont think they can ever get a girl like me ….hahaha….

  3. Chivalry is not dead! Though, it’s harder not to look old fashion while showing some decent respect to a lady.
    Lets bring it back!

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