This article was written by Jordan

To become more appealing to women you have to follow a few basic rules. Even if you feel like you were slapped with the giant ugly stick there are still ways to shine in a crowd full of male models. If you want to know how to get women to notice you, you should know there are a lot of things women agree on and have in common. Following some of these quick tips can instantly boost your chances for being noticed, and maybe get her to like you.

You are never fully dressed without a smile! As cheesy as this may sound, you’d better listen. Most every woman loves a man who looks happy and approachable. Smiling will increase your ‘warmth level’ and make her want to know just what you’re so happy about. Some women dig the serious and brooding type but that’s usually just a phase. Keep the smile on at all times.

Clean up your basic look. There’s something to be said about a man who is well put together. When you go out (whether it be to a bar or church) what you wear is how you choose to represent yourself. For example, if you go to church with gym socks peeking through and wrinkles in your slacks, you look lazy and irresponsible. Be very careful how you choose to brand yourself. You don’t need to literally WEAR brand clothing but present yourself in a way you can be proud of and she’ll take notice.

Loose the swagger. Lately it seems so many men are trying too hard, and it shows. When you walk with a lean or high profile strut and talk with a ‘slick guy’ attitude you are exuding DOUCHE. Women see right through the act and instantly wonder what is so bad about your real personality that you have to pretend to be someone else. It is a major turnoff. Trying too hard to have a certain ‘aura’ about you isn’t always for the best. Loose the swagger and be yourself. Be confident, stand up straight, and be a gentlemen.

Did you notice that how to become more appealing to women had nothing to do with your looks? That’s because although a sexy face and body doesn’t hurt, women really are more attracted to a personality. So make sure you smile and are friendly, you clean up before going out into public, and loose the swagger that does NOT make you look like Mick Jagger.